There’s no denying it, with a price tag ranging from $70,000 to $180,000, surrogacy requires a substantial investment. Luckily, there are ways to make it an achievable one.
In this article we’ll go over the options available for financing your surrogacy journey, from loans, grants, and company fertility benefits, to more creative approaches, such as fundraisers.
Banks provide a number of financing options that can be utilized for surrogacy:
It should be noted that this is only a brief overview of the different lending options available for intended parents pursuing surrogacy. You should consult your bank and accountant to better understand your options as they pertain to your specific situation.
There are companies who offer fertility-specific financing loans, such as:
We’ll be updating this list as other financial options become available, but the above should be helpful as you kick-off your search. You can also check out Resolve’s extensive list of fertility financing programs.
Companies in competitive industries often offer at least some support in as far as fertility benefits to their staff in a bid to retain talent, especially among female and LGBTQ+ employees. Some of these benefits are also available for surrogacy. Fertility packages are becoming more popular, with 31% of US employers with 500 employees or more offering such benefits in 2018 when compared to 24% in 2016. While your employer will not cover the whole cost of your surrogacy journey, fertility benefits can get you off to a good start.
If you haven’t already, look into your benefits or speak with your Human Resources / Benefits contact about options available to you. It doesn’t hurt to encourage your employer to look into adding fertility treatment coverage if they’re still not offering it – fertility benefits are becoming more commonly expected by employees, regardless of industry.
There are multiple fertility and surrogacy grant programs which you can apply for to assist you along the way. While they can be more difficult to obtain than loans; if you are accepted, grants can help you cover some expenses without having to worry about repayments.
Different grants are aimed at different people/situations and cover different portions of the overall process, so it’s best to research which criteria best meet your specific case and apply accordingly. Some grant examples are:
Some surrogacy agencies offer in-house financing in the form of loans with partner companies or the option of payments in monthly installments. These financing options usually come at lower interest rates when compared to other commercial options and are a good option if you’d like to manage every element of your surrogacy journey in one place. GoStork lists if the agency offers financing options, even allowing you to sort agencies by this feature.
A more creative option, fundraising can take many forms. Online fundraising campaigns can help you get the word out among your family and friends. It can admittedly feel strange to be asking for money, but it’s for a great cause and you’re also giving them a chance to get involved in and excited about your journey to parenthood. Maybe just tell them not to get you birthday gifts for at least a few years!
A garage sale, selling handmade or unwanted items online or a (safely socially-distanced) fundraising BBQ, can get you extra cash to add to the surrogacy pot.
Insurance policies on surrogacy coverage vary greatly from one provider to another, so there’s no straightforward answer as to what’s covered and what isn’t. That said, it pays to get smart with your insurance. Ask which medical costs insurance will cover for the surrogate and the baby — not all providers will cover a surrogate pregnancy, but they may still cover other fertility costs, like IVF. The ideal way forward is to review your policy with a specialist to find out which costs you’ll have to meet out-of-pocket.
It’s never too early to start saving. Set up a dedicated savings account – soon enough, the numbers will start adding up. With outings curbed, commuting cut, and less money spent on eating out, the (very faint) silver lining of Covid-19 is that it’s given us more saving opportunities.
We also suggest you read our article How Much Does Surrogacy Cost? A Breakdown for Intended Parents to get insight into the actual cost of surrogacy – broken down into each component – to help you plan better.
There are many questions when it comes to surrogacy tax laws – at both a federal and state level, there are no firm answers as to whether gestational carrier expenses are deductible as a medical expense. According to Client Whys, “medical expenses paid for a surrogate mother and her unborn child would not qualify for deduction under § 213(a)”.
That said, there are elements of the process which may fall under personal medical care in the case of an infertility diagnosis, and also the option of taking the Private Letter Ruling (PLR) route. Given these ambiguities and possibilities, it’s best to consult with your accountant and tax professional to go over your specific case.
The financial aspect of surrogacy can easily feel overwhelming. However, as Candace Wohl, co-writer of the award-winning blog Our Misconception, mom of two, and infertility advocate notes in an interview with GoStork, while surrogacy is expensive, it is also doable: “We are not independently wealthy, I can’t sing like Beyoncé, and we financially survived two successful surrogacies. It is possible.”
With the right preparations and some assistance along the way, you, too, can survive the financial commitment surrogacy entails. Go through your options, apply for funding, save wisely and, more importantly, stay positive!
GoStork is the only online platform that allows you to find, compare, and connect with your ideal surrogacy agency at no additional cost to you. We offer a one-of-a-kind comparison tool that helps intended parents compare surrogacy agencies side-by-side and point-by-point for various criteria, including fully transparent cost breakdowns by agency so that you’ll know exactly what you’ll need to budget for. Find your ideal surrogacy agency, here.